Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Holding Hands

dear daughters,

My how time flies during the Christmas season! It seems like just yesterday the leaves started to fall. But yesterday it was only freezing drizzle and sleet that fell around here!

Speaking of falling, do you ever feel like that TV commercial, “I’ve fallen and I can’t get up?” I do. Sometimes we fall down on our jobs, our responsibilities, our loyalties, and our God. We fail. Yes, WE do. Everyone fails, and way more than once. But God knows that, and He sent His son to earth to pay the penalty for all our falling down in failure. He did this so we could be in His perfect, holy presence forever and ever.

When we really believe in our heart of hearts that this is true and we bow to the Almighty God who loved us so much to do this for us, then He sees us as righteous, even though we still may fall from time to time. But here’s His wonderful promise to His righteous sons and daughters, “The steps of a man are established by the LORD, And He delights in his way. When he falls, (did you catch that? WHEN he falls…not IF…) he will not be hurled headlong, because the LORD is the One who holds his hand” (Psalm 37:23-24).

Do you know what this promise means for the believer in Jesus? It means that we can always get up! No matter how you have fallen down in failure, God has a hold of your hand if you have put your hand in His as your personal Lord and Savior. God will help you up with His own strong and mighty hand every time you fall!

God says in Isaiah 41:10, “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

We girls like to hold hands, but the best hand we can ever hold is the hand of our loving God. Hang on to His hand, girls, and don’t ever let go!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Monday, November 17, 2008

Some Very Convincing Evidence

dear daughters,

Today is a gorgeous fall day! But I still think autumn in New England trumps Texas every time! There are so many beautiful places in our world. Sandy beaches, majestic mountains, massive canyons, cool rivers, rolling hills and expansive oceans. Our earth is fascinating!

Scientists will attempt to explain how and why it is the way it is, but the Bible tells the most important point. In Romans 1:20 it says that God has made Himself real to us through His creation since the beginning of the world. (momma b’s version) The power of the oceans never ceases. The tides have always come in and gone out daily, and there is nothing man can do to stop them, just as man can do nothing to stop the awesome power of God! The beautiful landscape of the earth is marvelous to behold. Its many different and glorious features illustrate the diversity and creativity of God, and show us a glimpse of His majesty!

Your friends who do not know or maybe even believe in God may question your faith along the way. Those times can seem awkward, especially if struggling for words to say. I hope you’ll remember the truth of Romans 1:20, and share it with them! Point them to the awesome evidence of God, right in their own backyard!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Picture Perfect

dear daughters,

Pictures are worth a thousand words! This is an old saying, and I believe a very true saying. What we see is many times easier to remember than what we hear. We often return to the “picture” of words written down when we cannot remember words spoken out loud. What would we do without class notes and study sheets!

I guess that’s one reason reading the Bible has become so important to me. It’s a “picture” of the words of God. It’s a reminder of all He says to do, and all He promises to do for His children.

This past week, my mother has been in the hospital. She has cancer. It’s hard to even write that, as it’s a picture of a reality that I don’t like at all. Sometimes in life there are unhappy things that happen to us and to those we love, and no one knows why. They’re not anyone’s fault. They’re just part of living in an imperfect human body in an imperfect human world.

But God gave me a beautiful picture this week. When we are at our lowest, for whatever reason, God is ALWAYS there with us. He kneels down beside us, and even lifts up our faces to Him with His very own holy hands. And He looks on us with love – pure love, perfect love. He is there to hold us, to grow us, to change us, to renew us, to guide us and to strengthen us. The Bible describes God as a mighty and victorious warrior, but also as our own Father. The perfect Father, the perfect protector, and the perfect friend, looking down with love from a perfect heaven. What a perfect picture!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

News Flash!

dear daughters,

Do you like roller coasters? I do. I remember riding one at Six Flags when I was in high school seven times in a row. It would have been eight if I hadn’t gotten sick! I love the thrill of going up and down. But going up and down in life is not always fun.

Sometimes we feel we are on top of the world, that we can conquer anything, and that everything is going our way. Other times we feel like we are down in a valley, or even a pit, and may wonder how, when or if we will ever get out.

I read Psalm 23 the other day for the umpteenth time. You know the one, “The Lord is my Shepherd….” We hear it most often at funerals. But its message is more about life than death! It says this, “Even though I walk through the valley…Thou art with me.” It says a bunch more, but I encourage you to go read it for yourself. God knows that we live in a world that is darkened by despair, destruction, disease and death. But He promises us that as we walk through life, even through the valleys and pits along the way, He is with us. He promises to comfort us, to guide us, to provide for us and to protect us. Is that good news, or what?!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Busy as a Bee!

dear daughters,

Busyness! Do you ever feel so busy you can hardly see straight? That’s how I’ve felt recently. Aimee and I feel like we’ve traveled the country in the last two weeks as we’ve visited two colleges AND driven to an out-of-town swim meet. Meanwhile there’s a house to run and a list a mile long!

I know Aimee has much on her “to do” list; and I bet you do, too. Being busy is really ok with God, providing we are busy doing what He wants us to be doing. He created us to work and worship, not sleep and slouch on the couch! But sometimes we get busy doing things that are not His desire for us. We get busy with video games, TV shows, meaningless texting, mindless web surfing, and just plain wasting time. God wants us to be busy about His work and the work He has designed for us to do.

Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.”

God has a “to do” list already written for our days, and none of our lists are exactly the same. We are all different, born in different circumstances, living in different situations and holding different gifts. He gives us choices as to what to do with our days, but He has specific things He desires us to choose to do with our uniqueness to bring honor to Him. When we choose the activities He has designed for us to do, we may be busy but we will be BLESSED!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

A Heart's Holiday

dear daughters,

What a beautiful holiday weekend I just enjoyed, vacationing in New England! The beauty of the fall is a wonderful reminder of the creativity of our God, and the control He has of our world. Autumn always comes, year after year, according to His plan. Now, maybe there’s not as much fall color in Texas as there is in Massachusetts or Maine; but nevertheless, the seasons come and the seasons go year after year just as He ordains.

Knowing God is in control is a comfort in times of crisis. Right now, our country is in the middle of a lot of change and concern. There is a close presidential race underway. There is a rollercoaster stock market making news every day, causing everyone to question their economic future. You surely have your own personal crises going on, your own changes and concerns. But when we know, really believe, that God is in control, then we can trust Him and rest in the comfort our faith brings.

Today I was reading in Psalms 118, and I was blessed by the first half of verse 6. “The Lord is for me, I will not fear.” It doesn’t ask if the Lord is for me. It doesn’t say the Lord is sometimes for me. It just states that He is, all the time. And when I know, really know and believe that He is for me then fear will not take hold of me.

God has everything in His control, and He is for me and my best interests. He is for you and your best interests, too! When we remind ourselves of this truth, our hearts have rest and peace. Now that’s a vacation!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Thursday, October 9, 2008

God is Faithful

dear daughters,

Girl, do I have some good news for you today! God is faithful! My friend Jenny often says, “God is faithful. It’s His character to be faithful, it’s who He is, and He doesn’t change. He is always faithful.” She said her mom often told her, so I want to tell my girls, too. It’s true! The Bible tells us many times that our God is faithful, true and trustworthy. What He says, He means. What He promises, He provides.

And one thing He provides us is a way out of trouble. There are many times when we are walking along the path of life, and we get distracted by something that looks fun, even though we know deep down it isn’t God’s best for us. 1 Corinthians 10:13 says there is nothing God has allowed in our path that He doesn’t know about and that He can’t get us out of, if we will look to Him for help. God is always true to His Word, so we can count on Him to faithfully provide a way out of the messes we sometimes make for ourselves. And not only does God show us the way out, He promises to walk with us on the way out. Sometimes we know how to get out of trouble, but the way out looks just as hard or harder than the way in. Sometimes the way out includes walking through tough consequences, requiring courage and endurance we don't have. God promises to help and strengthen us if we will just look to Him and trust Him at His Word.

God is faithful. He has always been faithful. And faithful will He always be. Trust Him today and every day!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Perfectly Pretty

dear daughters,

Today I got to thinking about Barbie dolls. They’ve been around a long time. Mine had blonde hair, and her boyfriend was named Ken. I think nowadays there are Barbies with all kinds of hair, and maybe all kinds of boyfriends, too. Have you ever met a real live Barbie doll? You know what I mean. Perfect hair. Perfect body. Perfect outfit. At least, that’s what she looks like on the outside – perfect – and honestly, sometimes perfectly plastic! The truth is no one is perfect. A person may look perfect on the outside, but she has imperfections on the inside - sins that need the forgiveness of Jesus - and hurts, disappointments and needs just like everyone else.

TV, magazines and movies make us think that there is a perfect definition for beauty, and if we don’t fit it, then we are worthless. This is not true! God perfectly formed us just as He saw best. We don’t see things the way God does. God doesn’t look at the outside, He looks at the heart. (1 Samuel 16:7) Yes, He gives us a body in which to live, to work, and to serve. But our bodies were not meant to all look the same. We are each created to live, work and serve differently. But we are all created with hearts to worship Him, and accepting Jesus as our Savior makes our hearts perfectly acceptable to God and able to love Him beautifully. This is perfectly pretty to God!

God purposed you to be perfectly pretty in your own unique way. Today, tell God what David told Him in Psalm 139:14, “I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well!”

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Prayer Power

dear daughters,

Do you believe that God answers prayers? He does! David wrote in Psalm 138:3, “When I called on you, you answered me and made me bold and strengthened my heart.” David knew the power of God and the power of prayer. He had experienced the supernatural.

When we call on God, He does answer us. Sometimes we don’t recognize His answer. Sometimes we don’t like His answer. But when we pray for His will to be done, He will answer. David had obviously prayed for God to give him boldness and strength of heart. And God did! If you are in need of courage, confidence or even determination to tackle something in life today, just pray! God just waits for us to ask Him for His help. He loves hearing that we are in need of Him, and He longs to show His love to us by answering our heartfelt prayers. Ask Him for what you need today!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Monday, October 6, 2008

Good Grief!

dear daughters,

Have you ever been made fun of? I have. It hurts. It’s especially hard to take when we are being made fun of for being good. I found out on graduation night from high school that several of my classmates thought I was a “goody two-shoes.” The kids in my class thought of me as being too good to have any fun, and they gave me grief over it. But the truth is, not having fun with the group was probably more about my being shy than about being good at that time of my life. I wasn’t a perfect teenager. I certainly wasn’t good 100% of the time. But while I wasn’t the “goody two-shoes” they thought I was, I was too good to have the kind of “fun” some of the kids at school were having.

Even today, there are other people who have all kinds of “fun” that I choose not to have. Sometimes it can be hard not to join the party. And sometimes by not following the crowd I have paid the price with friendships. But God tells us not to be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals.” (1 Corinthians 15:33) And He says “A good name is to be more desired than great riches.” (Proverbs 22:1)

When we choose to be good for God, we sometimes get a bad rap with some people. But God promises that we’d rather get a bad rap from others than have a bad reputation with Him. So stand strong in your faith, stand up for what’s good, and stand in front of God one day in heaven and hear Him say, “Way to be good! Now come in and have some real fun for eternity!”

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Friday, October 3, 2008

TGIF!

dear daughters,

TGIF! (Thank goodness it’s Friday!) By the time Friday rolls around, most people are ready to put their feet up and do nothing. I think it’s true with teenagers these days as much or more than with adults. Younger people just getting started in life have a lot of pressure these days. Pressure to perform. Pressure to be perfect. Pressure to please. Pressure, pressure, pressure!

What happens to a tire if its pressure gets too high? It can blow! Just like a balloon that gets filled too full of air, it can just pop. Jesus knew that we can feel like that balloon sometimes, like we are ready to explode. That’s why He told His disciples in Mark 6:31 “Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest awhile.” Notice Jesus said “Come away”, not “Go away.” He wanted them to come away with Him. He said it again in Matthew 11:28, “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”

But weekends can be just as busy as the weekdays sometimes. There are sports and friends and church and family commitments, and oh yeah, that project due Monday. This weekend, find a quiet place away from all the people and pressures to relax in His presence. He promises us rest if we will take the time to be alone with Him. I pray you take time to rest in Him this weekend!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Thursday, October 2, 2008

A Joyful Walk

dear daughters,

Have you ever been in the same room with somebody, but they act like you don’t even exist? I have. It makes you wonder if they are just trying to be rude, or if you are really that unnoticeable or that insignificant to them. I bet God wonders that about us sometimes. Even though He’s always in the room, we don’t always act like it. Sometimes we forget it, but a lot of times we try to ignore it. We try to pretend He isn’t there and doesn’t see what we are doing. We do our thing and certainly don’t strike up a conversation with Him. In those moments, we are telling God, “You are not important right now.” But that doesn’t mean He leaves. He just doesn’t keep interacting with us when we are obviously not interested.

I used to wonder how some people can be so joyful all the time. One day, God showed me the answer in Psalm 16:11, “You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence.” Wow! There is joy in His presence, but wait…He is always present, right? So why am I not always joyful? There’s a difference in being in the same room and being on the same path. When we choose to listen to what He tells us about life, and walk with Him on the right path, even when things are hard, then He will fill us with joy! I think it’s sort of an overflow of His joy that He feels for us when we are walking with Him and obeying Him. Kind of like the joy we feel when we know we’ve made our parents happy. Joy is contagious! So make your Father God joyful today, and allow Him to fill you up with His heavenly joy!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Every Day is Sunny with God

dear daughters,

What a beautiful day outside! I love the fall. The weather invites us outside to enjoy God’s creation. Somehow being in His creation on a sunny day feels not only warm on the outside of me, but on the inside of me, too. We somehow feel God right there with us when we are outside enjoying His creation on a beautiful day. But gloomy, rainy days can sometimes feel lonely. When we are stuck inside, trapped in the walls of our manmade rooms, we lose sight of God’s creation and His presence with us. When we aren’t reminded of Him by our surroundings, we can think that He’s not around. But He is! The Bible says God never leaves us. Over and over again His Word promises that He is always right beside us.

Even if it’s not raining outside, we can feel like it is a rainy day. Maybe when you’re at school you sometimes feel lonely, afraid and discouraged. Maybe you wonder if God even knows. Well, He knows and He cares! He loves you and wants you to live your best so you can enjoy life the most. And He promises to walk right beside you while you do it. God said in Joshua 1:9, “Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go." God said to be strong and courageous not once, not twice, but THREE times in just four verses! He doesn’t want us to be weak and timid, but strong and full of courage, trusting in His promise to be with us all the time and help us in all we do. Loneliness vanishes when we remember we are never alone.

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

A Delightful Story

dear daughters,

Today I want to tell you a story. When I was about 17, almost 18, I heard a youth pastor talk about Psalm 37:4, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” It was the first time I felt like I really heard God speaking to me, somehow right to my heart through this pastor. The pastor said this Bible verse meant that if you found your happiness in God, instead of looking for happiness in the world, God would come into your heart and clean it up. Well, I knew I needed some things cleaned up. On the outside, I looked like a pretty good teen most of the time, but on the inside I had some desires, (urges to do things,) that I knew were not right. I didn’t put them there. But somehow they were there just the same. The pastor said these desires were sins, but because of Jesus, I could be forgiven for them and free from them. He said if I looked to God for my happiness, He would replace those wrong desires with His perfect ones, making me want the same good things in life that God wanted for me.

After that night, I couldn’t quit thinking about what the pastor said. I sure was tired of wanting things I knew were not right or best. And I was tired of acting on those desires, too. They usually didn’t lead to anything very good, and usually made me sad. So one day soon after, I asked God through Jesus to come into my heart and clean it up, and give me new desires that would make Him happy instead of me. And what happened? I became happier than ever! I figured out what it meant, to delight myself in God. It’s finding my happiness by seeking His happiness. And this is still what makes me happy today!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Monday, September 29, 2008

Divine Design

dear daughters,

Divine Design is one of Aimee’s and my favorite TV shows. Did you know God likes divine design too? He’s the Great Designer and designed all of creation. It’s so much fun when God divinely designs something really obvious! My daughters were divinely designed, and that’s why this blog is called daughters by design. My real daughter was designed for me and from me by the hand of God for the glory of God. My other two daughters were designed to be in my life as gifts from God. All three were designed to be daughters of the King, through their faith in Jesus Christ. And He has designed for all His daughters a specific, special purpose for living their lives on earth.

He divinely designs our lives, too. Even though we have a say-so in life, He can do whatever He thinks best anytime He chooses. He does let us make our own way and walk in our own choices, and they can teach us tough lessons sometimes. But because God loves us, He never designs life to be more than we can handle. How divine!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b

Sunday, September 28, 2008

dear daughters

dear daughters,

God gave me an idea! I have to give Him credit, because He is the Creator and author of creativity. I LOVE creativity, don’t you? I know my creative artist daughter Aimee does. Anyway, back to the creative, new idea. I love you, I love to teach, I love to share what God has taught me, I love to see you succeed, AND I love to write! And I know that you love email and texting. SO….how about a Dear daughter e-note (and I mean note, not a novel) every day or so, with something to smile about or consider? If it’s free, electronic, and you don’t have to do a thing, then why not, right?

So here’s one for starters… Did you know that we are all children? I know you probably don’t like being called a child these days. Whether or not you are technically an adult, you probably don’t consider yourself a child since you are old enough to read this note. But even though I’m a mom, I’m still a child to God. And I am so happy that I am! The Bible tells me that I am a child of God because I believe and receive Jesus. That makes God my Father, the perfect Father, One who loves me, protects me and cares for me. Check out these Bible verses written by three different men - three of the twelve that walked with Jesus as His apostles.

John said, “But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12). Paul added, “And if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ…” (Romans 8:17). Peter concluded, “To obtain an inheritance which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you” (1 Peter 1:4).

You were born a daughter to someone. But what’s more important is that you are reborn as a daughter of the King when you claim Jesus as your Savior. And because He is royalty, His daughters have a royal inheritance! Now that’s a reason to rejoice!

living to love, loving to live,
momma b